I recently received a comment on my blog on FF #2 about Emma Watson. The commenter said in response to me:
I know he’s not aha. And I know the way you are defining feminism, but the definition seems a little different than what feminists are actually doing. I agree (mostly, not entirely) with the last video, although I thought all three had good points. It’s more how feminists (the extreme feminists if you will) portray themselves and how that might actually be detrimental to boys/men.
I get that you don’t hate men. I get that you have an outgoing, independent personality and I admire that. I’m not attacking you at all. I’m just trying to see if I can reconcile these two opposing ideas for myself, you know?
I want to break this down.
So how do I define feminism?
I define it the way I’ve been raised to and the official dictionary definition, which is “the advocacy of women’s rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men.” Here is the link to the Urban Dictionary definition, which elaborates more.
What are feminists doing?
According to this commenter, feminists are acting differently than the definition. I’m not fully up to date on everything feminism going on, but I do know about a few things that ahve happened recently.
Malala Yousafzai is still advocating for girls’ education and won the Nobel Peace Prize.
Emma Watson spoke at the UN about her new campaign, HeForShe, which tries to get men involved in the feminist movement.
Taylor Swift has said a few things about feminism in 2014.
And that’s just what I know. All of those women have not been shaming or discriminating against women. They have been advocating for equality.
Where are people getting the idea that the word “feminism” is synonymous with “man-hating”?
I know of, but do not personally know, “feminists” who think they are better than men. This is not feminism.
I have seen this portrayed once in the media by, unfortunately, the otherwise wonderful Shailene Woodley. She said she wasn’t a feminist because she didn’t hate men. This really disappoints me. Her entire fanbase of young teenage girls are going to try to reflect her, and probably won’t be feminists because of this. Which makes me very sad.
I found this article on the web and found it very enlightening. If you’re interested in learning more about why feminism is being called man-hating, click that link!
What I Learned:
- feminism started in the late 1700’s
- about misandrists
- that people are irrational [but I kind of already knew that…]
- men wanted to keep power so they basically called feminism man-hating [I am not blaming all men]